My Marriage Is At Stake Please Advice Me
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My Marriage Is At Stake Please Advice Me:
My name is (withheld), i am 35 years old, i am a mother of 3 lovely kids, two girls and one boy.
My husband and i got married 10 years ago and when we got married, life was not so rosy for us as we started managing life gradually. I got pregnant immediately after our wedding and i delivered our first child, a baby girl. My husband and i loved each other so much because we had so much in common. We never had arguments or quarrels even while we were dating before we got married.
Our marriage was perfect, except for the fact that the needed resources to enable us live our dream life was not readily available. My husband was a very hardworking man and he still is till date. The situation of the country was not favourable to us as my husband's hardwork and effort was not bringing much, but we had hope and believed for a better tomorrow.
I was working before we got married, but when i got pregnant and my pregnancy was four months, i had to stop work because it was my first and i was having the first time trouble experience.
Our first child was 2 years when i took in for our second child. I was two months pregnant with our second child when an opportunity came for my husband to travel out of the country to Dubai. We never planned living away from each other, but then also we needed a better life. My husband and i deliberated over it for some time, looking at all possible effects and blessings his travel might bring. Finally we concluded that he should take the opportunity and travel. So my husband left for Dubai. Two months after he travelled, my life and that of the kid changed tremendously as my husband made sure we never lacked anything. After six months of his travel, when i was about eight months pregnant, my husband bought a beautiful car for me to relieve the stress. Life got much better as we relocated from where we were living to a much better apartment.
I put to bed safely and my husband was overjoyed with the news and shipped a lot of items to us. We started living our dream life, only for the fact that it was at the expense of us being together.
Due to the distance and time difference, our communication was not constant, and with time, we could talk maybe twice or thrice a week. Which of course was not an issue as my husband and i trusted and believed each other so much beyond any reason of doubt.
It was already two years after i gave birth to our second child. My husband was supposed to come home for vacation at the end of his two years contract, but then something happened. His company in Dubai gave him an offer going to the U.S. for an immediate replacement of an employee over there who threw in an emergency resignation.
So, instead of coming home, he took the opportunity and left for the U.S.
Life only got better with more than enough money to give us heaven on earth.
I had longed for my husband and had my hope of being with him again after these two years, but that hope was dashed with the new turn of events. Somehow, i started feeling empty. I started feeling his absence. My body started demanding for him. My emotions started running wild. My mind started visualising what i have missed for close to three years. I can't really explain the feelings. Many times i find my self wet from thoughts.
To cut the long story short, i have a child for another man. The child is three years old.
My husband is planning to come home after about nine years.
What should i do:
Should i pack and leave?
Should i take the last child i had for another man out of the house and hide it from him ?
Should i tell him the truth, apologise and leave when he comes?
Please advise me…🙏 🧑🍼👪
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